on 22-02-2009 02:57 AM
I've got lots of friends that are girls. One of them has liked me for a while, but is acting as if she expects me to ask her out. Don't like her in that way though.
The way I look at it, having girls as friends isn't a bad thing. As skf said, more opportunities.
on 22-02-2009 03:06 AM

on 22-02-2009 03:26 AM
dJ, If it's action you want, that's a whole different game to finding a "girlfriend." I go clubbing a lot if I am not on my PS3. Like now, I'm resting from PS3 activities. Guy's have to be just right in away, I can't explain it any better. ATM These guy's that go on about there "wing man" and think there kool usually are very immature and "one on one" really shallow. {Very much like the birds they pull} Unfortunately, as I have seen recently on my nocturnal excursions, they ruin it for the rest of you, who are actually ok. Except in exclusive nightclubs which require membership and for some bizzare reason you never see them or there wing man LOL ?????
dJ, Your really quite well read and I know you write improperly here, as it's a guy thing and a mates thing. {I have read your games reviews.} For the life of me, I think if you be who you are and not some imitation from TV you will get into that league where the women are interesting and you will find your own place. Then you will find that class of women a whole different species, mah!! You got loads of time.... and gather "girl~friends" around you, it can't hurt.
on 22-02-2009 03:41 AM
skf4 wrote:dJ, If it's action you want, that's a whole different game to finding a "girlfriend." I go clubbing a lot if I am not on my PS3. Like now, I'm resting from PS3 activities. Guy's have to be just right in away, I can't explain it any better. ATM These guy's that go on about there "wing man" and think there kool usually are very immature and "one on one" really shallow. {Very much like the birds they pull} Unfortunately, as I have seen recently on my nocturnal excursions, they ruin it for the rest of you, who are actually ok. Except in exclusive nightclubs which require membership and for some bizzare reason you never see them or there wing man LOL ?????
dJ, Your really quite well read and I know you write improperly here, as it's a guy thing and a mates thing. {I have read your games reviews.} For the life of me, I think if you be who you are and not some imitation from TV you will get into that league where the women are interesting and you will find your own place. Then you will find that class of women a whole different species, mah!! You got loads of time.... and gather "girl~friends" around you, it can't hurt.

on 22-02-2009 03:55 AM
SAIUN wrote:
I like using the internet to mope and feel sorry for myself. Makes it easier to stay positive in real life.
Unfortunately, everyone I talk to on the internet thinks I'm a sad sack of a loser as a result.
lol oh dear ...try and think positive and you will feel better...
I know its a cliche but it really is true
on 22-02-2009 04:53 AM
on 22-02-2009 05:34 AM
dJAmZz wrote:
skf4 wrote:dJ, If it's action you want, that's a whole different game to finding a "girlfriend." I go clubbing a lot if I am not on my PS3. Like now, I'm resting from PS3 activities. Guy's have to be just right in away, I can't explain it any better. ATM These guy's that go on about there "wing man" and think there kool usually are very immature and "one on one" really shallow. {Very much like the birds they pull} Unfortunately, as I have seen recently on my nocturnal excursions, they ruin it for the rest of you, who are actually ok. Except in exclusive nightclubs which require membership and for some bizzare reason you never see them or there wing man LOL ?????
dJ, Your really quite well read and I know you write improperly here, as it's a guy thing and a mates thing. {I have read your games reviews.} For the life of me, I think if you be who you are and not some imitation from TV you will get into that league where the women are interesting and you will find your own place. Then you will find that class of women a whole different species, mah!! You got loads of time.... and gather "girl~friends" around you, it can't hurt.
its not really action i want, everyone i know is like, if you dont use it you lose it blah blah. if action was all i wanted i'd be getting it by now. i think i need a new group of friends, all the girls im friends wih just want "a fun time" its really frustrating when i see these guys they go for, tey're absolutely putrid and it makes me feel like, theyd have thatover me?.
when i try be myself, the girl gets put off cos im TOO into her. im the kind of guy that writes a girl poems, txt's "im thinking about you" and that kind of thing.
This one girl atm, i just started talking to her on msn 2 weeks ago, and imo we've kind of hit it off. shes in year 10 and ive been helping her with her english essay, she just finished it today, she said im awesome etc, and so when i asked her how are the boys going, she tells me, theyre all right, but im not looking atm. she then said something along te lines of, after my last 2 boyfriends, i just dont have the energy anymore. i asked her what happened with the last two n she told me she'll tell me later (and to remind her to tell me) but she has to go now.
now ive spent the past 2 hours trying to analyse what this could mean, and what i should do next...
Yuck writing poems to girls are soooo last century. Like whateverrrr.
Sorry that just freaks me out lol
Also make sure you remind her! I want to know what happened
22-02-2009 07:47 AM - edited 22-02-2009 07:48 AM
skf4 wrote:
Guy's have to be just right in away, I can't explain it any better.
One word: feral_.
Oh and an example of a good poem to write for the ladies is:
Come lie in by bed,the sheets I will tuck,then I will hop in
and have a quick... chuck.
p.s. sorry I drank too much
on 22-02-2009 11:26 PM
As they say Skf, its easy to talk the talk but it hard to walk the walk.
Even though I am many girl~friends (about 5 of them) and also many girl aquatnancies (wrong spelling?)..... I have yet to have a GF. Dont get me wrong I have no trouble talking to females or listening to them either.
The real problem is trying to meet new girls and not get trapped in the FRIEND ZONE, which I keep landing in.
I guess if you are too open then you get urself trapped as a Friend but if you not open enough you wont even be considered a friend or potential BF. Its somewhat of a thinline to walk on really.
on 23-02-2009 03:41 AM
Hey Time, I remember your "Friends zone" post's from a while back. But, I can't imagine you with out a "chicklette" on your arm. You sound sooo kooool and your genuinely funny, maybe your just aiming at the wrong part of the market?? Or the market place is studying for there degree's?
I also found whilst your at uni, it limits your flexibility to have proper relationships. That's if you take studying seriously like I did. I was boyfreind~less my uni years, I was popular.. {Burgundy & pink haired, slim punk goth's tend to be} Butt, I just shut them out subconsciously and kept them as friends. {maybe that's all it is} My father was ohh so0000 strict about me getting my degree...... It just means your old fashioned Time, and I can assure you in the real world of life and work, women want that... Not some smooth operator and his wing man LOL They just don't realise how stupid they make them selves look...![]()
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