Level 3
Right guys I need some advice as I've been in a situation for around 6 months now and can't get out of it and I'm just in a constant depression that I can't get out of and no longer know what to do about it.
I've always gone through high school as quite a well known person and I had a loads of friends and was respected by a lot of people, I used to respect a lot of them back too. Then last March I found myself this girlfriend who came new to our school as She transferred from another school and a lot of boys were after her as She first came to our school.
I used to have seperate days for friends and girlfriends, e.g I would spend Friday and Saturday with my group or friends then on Sunday I would spend the day with my girlfriend. However, I now no longer have any friends and I really do not know why. I've been in a relationship with this girl since March last year and stuck to the same routine so that I never blew my friends off, but it seemed as though my friends thought I should of been spending every day of my weekend with them but I disagreed. Due to their possessiveness the 9/10 best friends that I had at school all just stopped talking to me, this has been going on since November 2011.
I now have gone from being one of the most respected people in my school to one of them most disrespected and when I walk into school in the mornings not one person says Hello to me, I'm in my fourth year at school and its a bad idea for me to leave school as I have all my GCSE exams coming up and every school has a different rota of learing.
What can I do about this? I don't want to go to school for the next year and a half of my life spending my break and lunch times in the library because I'm to scared to sit on my own in the dinner hall. 
Level 3
Have you tried talking to them? I know it may sound "sad" and "gay" to the kids these day, but the best way to resolve situations like this, is by talking to the people who make you feel this way. Let them know how you feel. If they really are your friends, they'll listen to you, understand what you're feeling and you'll work something out.
However if that's not the case, then here is some advice, don't bother stressing over any of them. When you leave high school, it's most likely you won't see most of them ever again. Go and find new and better people to hang around with.
Level 5
sean_kelly wrote:Right guys I need some advice as I've been in a situation for around 6 months now and can't get out of it and I'm just in a constant depression that I can't get out of and no longer know what to do about it.
I've always gone through high school as quite a well known person and I had a loads of friends and was respected by a lot of people, I used to respect a lot of them back too. Then last March I found myself this girlfriend who came new to our school as She transferred from another school and a lot of boys were after her as She first came to our school.
I used to have seperate days for friends and girlfriends, e.g I would spend Friday and Saturday with my group or friends then on Sunday I would spend the day with my girlfriend. However, I now no longer have any friends and I really do not know why. I've been in a relationship with this girl since March last year and stuck to the same routine so that I never blew my friends off, but it seemed as though my friends thought I should of been spending every day of my weekend with them but I disagreed. Due to their possessiveness the 9/10 best friends that I had at school all just stopped talking to me, this has been going on since November 2011.
I now have gone from being one of the most respected people in my school to one of them most disrespected and when I walk into school in the mornings not one person says Hello to me, I'm in my fourth year at school and its a bad idea for me to leave school as I have all my GCSE exams coming up and every school has a different rota of learing.
What can I do about this? I don't want to go to school for the next year and a half of my life spending my break and lunch times in the library because I'm to scared to sit on my own in the dinner hall.
Sounds like a rough deal. Kids can be mean. Two things come to mind for me, either, they're sore losers (because you got her first) and have chosen to act like immature kids (which they probably are anyway) or you don't have the full picture of what is going on.
Your best best is to talk to one of your former "Best friends" and ask them why everyone has alienated you. If they're as good mates as you think they should have no problem answering you honestly unless they're spineless. Perhaps there's things going on behind the scenes like a rumour or maybe they really do just have sour grapes.
On the bright side once school is over it really is over and everything that happened there is well and truly behind you.
Oh, and don't take any odd resposnses you get here to heart, people like to lighten the mood in all kinds of ways around here. No doubt you will be told to smeare honey on yourself as it solves all problems 
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