General Discussion

[CaptainCortez]

To be honest, it annoys me that people find it fun to go out and sleep with as many people as possible.

I'm 21 (22 in april), and haven't done it yet, for the simple reason of, I want to find someone who's also waiting for the right person......but in our society today, where we have parents at the age of 13, and seemingly the majority of people losing their v plates at the age of 16 or younger, it just aggrevates me.

There seems little to no honour left in the world, and with this whole "sex race scene".

I'm not religious in any way at all, and couldn't care less about it.

I made all of my views up when I was a kid, and stuck to them, so I can't ever be classed as the typical male (even though I like boobs rofl, and felt 7 different girls boobs in 8 days.....but I'm not gonna try and break that record. Quite happy with it lmao) There's a bit of a difference between messing around like that, and actually going the whole way, and doing everything imaginable.

I just want to meet a nice and decent girl with good values, and have them love me for who I am, as I would to them.

I had 3 girlfriends last year. The first one lasted 2 months and 3 days, and I liked her a lot, and we did things once (topless only), but then she left me for a womaniser, after telling me she loved me....then the other one wanted to go out with me, but I didn't like her too much, but thought well, give her a chance, whatever. She then decided to sleep with someone behind my back, and make out with someone in front of me......and then my last gf was great, and we got on really well, but then she went off with someone behind my back, and couldn't understand why I backed away when she wanted to hug me and said sorry to me.....thinking everything would be the same, and nothing would change.

Jees people, you do things like that, and there are consequences.

Anyway, my point is that I just don't want to do anything until I've met a girl who seems to be "the one", if such a girl exists.

Sure, peer pressure was around, but I've not ever been one to do things what others suggest, unless I strongly agree with it myself, so that's where willpower comes in. Seems a lot of people lack that in todays society.

Sorry for the long post, but hey, that's what this topic is here for pretty much.

[boffin92]

I'm not worried about it being the one, I just want it to be with someone who is safe, respectful and generally nice.

[Ste1105]

I Respect your morales/Values. I wish I'de waited for a girl I care about but I only did one before her so I'll go easy on myself =P. I've had a girl I care about go behind my back so If nothing else im glad a few bad apples hasn't made you so cynical... I hope you find the girl you deserve/are looking for.

[CaptainCortez]

Haha, I dunno mate. I've got nothing left in me to continue dating.....no passion or anything, so it seems pointless, and I've basically given up.

Maybe it's just bad luck having that done to you three times in a row, in one year, but I dunno. Just tired of being treated like an a-hole, when I'm not one.

It's basically disillusioned and disheartened me, getting rid of any feelings I once had.

Maybe there's a nice girl out there somewhere, and I'll get my feelings back one day, but yea.....I think the only reason I'm not so cynical about it, is because I've always had a good sense of humour. *hums Monty Python's "Always look on the bright side of life"*

Message Edited by CaptainCortez on 25-02-2009 01:57 AM

[CRD90]

If it makes the OP feel better...

• The average person loses their virginity at the age of 19.
• The average person also lies about when they lost their virginity. 

My advice, you'll know when the time is right, don't feel as though it's some sort of bomb you have to get rid of at the first opportunity.

Also, when the time come, be safe

[stig193]

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CRD90 wrote:

Also, when the time come, be safe

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Don't worry, I'll use a bin liner.

[CRD90]

[boffin92]

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stig193 wrote:

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CRD90 wrote:

Also, when the time come, be safe

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Don't worry, I'll use a bin liner.

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Nah nah, Tesco bags are where it's at...

...you get handles to help keep it on.

[CaptainCortez]

Are you mad boy?!!?!

I heard using RPG's were the best in protection.

Message Edited by CaptainCortez on 25-02-2009 02:36 AM

[Codey47]

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ratchetnclank wrote:

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Codey47 wrote:

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ratchetnclank wrote:

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Codey47 wrote:
Lost my virginity when I was 13

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Thats gross.

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Highly gross

Not really, she was a 15 year old stunner

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I would of been embarresed to have sex at 13 :\

I was only just starting puberty.

Message Edited by ratchetnclank on 24-02-2009 04:49 PM

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Well, seeing though you never....embarassed or not.  You can't really comment about the situation

Having a full forestry around the never regions doesn't make you a man. Neither does losing your virginity at a young age.

And I know...you already know this.

And just for the record...no I'm not that little pipsqueek that doesn't even know what finance is.

I'm more than double his age. Even though my posts are presented, as if they were, from a fifteen year old.