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fenian wrote:
Chuk_Chuk wrote:
fenian wrote:
I didnt know so many people on here were so insecure. Makes sense though.Why do you say people are insecure if they do not like being kissed by a man?
Insecure about their personal space being invaded.
What other reason would you have to strike someone who merely gave you a peck? you cant say you are secure in yourself if you think its apropriate response.
Could you explain to me how it isnt insecurity?
It's a violation of their personal space.
I wouldn't want to be kissed by a stranger anymore than I'd want them touching my naughty parts.
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Chuk_Chuk wrote:
How is someone insecure when they are able to identify where they have chosen to set the boundary for their personal space?
I think you just defined insecurity?
Lacking stability, being in trouble, feeling in danger, not feeling safe.
He feels secure when he has personal space, insecure when he does not, its not very difficult to understand, the word kind of defines itself.
I personally feel secure when my personal space is invaded, but you know, im an alpha male and not a kid that runs around limp wristed slapping people, ya know?
If you have to defend yourself from a peck on the lips, youre insecure. I cant explain it any clearer.
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So your an alpha male because you allow your personal space to be invaded, by whoever feels like it whenever they want?
Well each to their own but in my opinion an alpha males owns a certain space/territory and designates how far other people are allowed to wonder into their territory. You cross the line and you are removed. It's called being in control and has nothing to do with being secure.
IMO the same principle can be applied to personal space. Everyone has a limit of how far a person can go. You go to far and your chased back out. Even you have your limits. Maybe you would accept a peck on the lips however something tells me you would be singing a different tune if the guy tried to stick his tongue down your throat or his hands down your trousers.
Don't go throwing the word insecurity about because you are not aware that everyone has different limits to what is tolerable.
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Chuk_Chuk wrote:Don't go throwing the word insecurity about because you are not aware that everyone has different limits to what is tolerable.
So insecure even the word insecure threatens you.
Being alpha male isnt about claiming territory, we are not dogs, its about being the male that can defend the group, any group, that he is in. lol, you dont even know what being a man is about.
I dont need to hit someone who kisses me, because I can handle myself and my security is in place until they attempt to attack me with violence. So I am secure.
Insecure people have to defend themselves, if you have to defend yourself from a kiss, youre insecure, just deal with it, youre insecure, you might grow out of it some day. When i was a teenager I was insecure about my masculinity too, nothing to be ashamed of, just a fact, will smith is insecure, and so are most of the people in this thread.
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It's shame that along the way you didn't realise that different people have different ways of handling situation, or different opinions on certain subjects and that your opinion is not the opinion that everyone else must share.
Also IMO a person shouldn't resort to using personal attacks as way to back up there points, it turns into nothing more than a ***** contest. So feel free to continue this discussion(argument) without me.
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