Westie you may be fighting a loosing battle on the official forums (particularly the eu ones) I didn't think anyone came on here anymore. Have you tried on the "the real socom" forums. I think they may be more active.
By the way if anything regular is set up on any night other than Fridays then I'm in.
I also second the comment about joining the oap room on a Friday. They are a good bunch of guys just playing for the fun of it and they are very welcoming of players of all abilities including a great deal of patience with new players and you do not need to join their clan. You will need to sign up on their forum though at oaps.org and make a post in introductions (just so they can hopefully filter out the less pleasant elements that we have all met on socom) .